Many parents give up the luxury of eating out at restaurants with a toddler in tow. It’s tempting to venture no further than the well-known ‘child-friendly’ restaurants with standard children’s menus but with Europe possessing some of the best gastronomic experiences in the world, wouldn’t it be marvellous to indulge on occasion?
Moreover, continued exposure to new foods is extremely important for toddlers. Research suggests that young children sometimes need to be exposed to food ten to fifteen times before they will accept it.
So, what can you do to keep your toddler occupied on these occasions? Invest in a special ‘bag’ to be filled with items that your toddler does not have access to at any other time and that is reserved solely for use when eating out in restaurants. This is your Restaurant Survival Kit. Only take one thing out at a time and let your child play until showing signs of becoming restless when it’s then time to fish out the next toy.
Obviously the contents of the kit will depend on your child’s age (does everything still go into his mouth?) and also on individual preferences such as favourite toy characters. However, here are a few ideas for your restaurant survival kit which you can adapt to suit:
- Small board books especially if your toddler has a favourite character.
- Small empty margarine tub - make a slit in the lid and your child will love posting items that you can hand to her.
- Don’t forget some finger foods - pretzel sticks can be played with and eaten too. You may consider offering foods which your child is usually not allowed to have so it is a special treat at a restaurant. Carry a couple of lollipops as an emergency measure should a tantrum threaten to erupt.
- Small toys such as toy cars - pack toys that do not require batteries and are not noisy.
- Stickers (that your child does not have access to at any other time), crayons, paper.
- And the star of the show is… playdough. Save this for when your toddler is showing signs of becoming restless. Buy the small one ounce containers and try the following:
- Mould into little cups and your toddler will become happily absorbed in filling these containers with anything available.
- Make ‘track’ or ‘road’ lines for a car to trundle along.
- For older toddlers make lots of different shapes from the dough for them to decipher/recognise. Save this for a break in the meal service when your hands are free.
So - are you ready to make that reservation?